Other people are real. Other people exist.
The Lie
When entering the world of learning how to consciously create you encounter a lot of crazy people and a whole lot of control freaks. One way this shows up is people telling you that you can control others and make them do what you want. You’ll see this stuff in the whole special person circle, those so desperate for a single seemingly special person to make them happy that they completely overshadow all the loveliness that they are and the true power of love that they possess.
The lie is simple, others don’t exist. All other people are just yours to control. You can force them to love you, force them to respect you, force them to leave you the hell alone, force force force. The lie keeps you forcing what’s meant to be graceful. The lie keeps you controlling what’s meant to flow freely. The lie has you stuck and struggling. The lie has you without the relationships you want, it keeps you from having a person who is truly special to you. What we are is pure love, do not let the lie hide that truth.
The Truth: Neville Goddard’s Golden Rule
This warning was given to man in the famous Golden Rule – “Do unto others that which you would have them do unto you.” [Matthew 7:21]
You may desire something for yourself or you may desire for another. If your desire concerns another make sure that the thing desired is acceptable to that other.
– Neville Goddard
Neville Goddard keeps it simple, imagining no ill will of others. Your job is not to control others, it is to lift them up. When you think of others, whether you love or hate them, imagine them happy and successful. When you think of that special person just see them happy and feel happy that they are happy. You are the creator, lead and lift up others with love. Use the power of imagination that you possess and give blessings to others and watch the blessings that are given to you.
The Secret: Return to Sender
How does blessing others bless you?
“The gift that is not accepted returns to the giver.”
-Neville Goddard
Whenever you imagine blessings for others they have the right to accept or reject it. If they accept it you have just changed another person for the better, you have improved how they show up in your life and how you show up in yours. This is why it’s important to bless even those you hate or always seem to have conflict with. You can dissolve conflict and tension in anyone.
So what if they reject your blessings? They return to you bigger and better. This is why you must always imagine lovely things about others. When you imagine great things about others and they reject it, it’s now your blessing because you chose to lead with love and bless them.
When you imagine unlovely things of others and they reject it, you get to experience those unlovely things bigger and a whole lot worse as well. On some unconscious level everybody tends to reject any ill will coming their way, that means any time you imagine bad things about others it comes straight back to you.
Build Others, Don’t Break Them
Before we go I have a few questions
- Why would you want to waste time trying to control others?
- Why would you want to exhaust yourself trying to seek happiness from forcing a relationship fueled by possessive obsession?
- Why continue to deal with others who make your life hell?
If you thought of someone specific reading the questions above, bless them now. close your eyes and see them happy, imagine them being a joy around you and you a joy around them.
You have the power to bring heaven on earth, just don’t forget Neville Goddard’s golden rule.